U angbor miaa, bøo angbor kviaa.

husband and wife in name only

掛名夫妻

U cidhør, bøo nng hør.

Both good and bad, has good and bad points. -- You can't have your cake and eat it too.

有利必有弊

U siøhviw u pøfpix, u ciah u kviakhix.

If you burn incense, you will be protected, if you eat, you'll grow. -- You must act in order to secure results.

有所為,必有所獲。

Uxlaang keaafng png angsex, uxlaang keaafng giaa angkee.

Some women marry a husband and eat well because of the husband's influence. Some women marry and have to support their husband

有人嫁好丈夫享福,有人嫁壞丈夫受苦。

Uxviu-khvoarviu, bøo viu kati sviu.

If there is a model or pattern, look to the model. If there isn't work it out yourself.

有樣學樣,無樣自己想。